Full offense, but if your coping mechanism involves hurting others, or other people are hurt as a result of your coping, then it is in fact a shitty coping mechanism that you need to get rid of, and the people you hurt have every right to be angry with you and call you a shitty person.
you guys ever think, like, “man in my next life i want to be a mushroom, or maybe a small lizard” cause this sentient being shit is exhausting, i just wanna scurry in dirt and absorb nutrients
shout out to the patient I called to remind to pick up their medication, whose voicemail message was “HEWWO? HEWWO?? WHO IS THIS??? WEAVE A MESSAGE” that rang out throughout the whole pharmacy, killing me instantly
Just because aspects of you (mannerisms, dress, etc.) appear feminine or masculine doesn’t mean they are.
Those traits could come from an entirely different place than masculinity or femininity. People can wrongly assign your qualities because they don’t have a conception of gender beyond the binary.
You aren’t responsible for how others categorize you. You don’t have to be masculine or feminine, especially if your gender doesn’t involve the binary.
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